Why You Have A Pattern of Attracting Narcissists

In today’s video we’re going to talk about why you have a pattern of attracting narcissists.

You’ll also learn you can do to begin to break the pattern and break free from the domination that they have had over your life.

The Energy Behind Narcissistic Relationship Dynamics

First of all, to understand how to break the pattern of attracting narcissists you have to understand what’s going on on an energetic level.

If you have been in a relationship with a narcissist or continue to attract them, the ultimate attraction of energy is based on the dynamic of fear.

A narcissist is someone who likes to have complete control because they don’t feel safe unless they do.

They will often dominate, belittle, force, coerce, push and be aggressive to get what they want.

On the other end you may feel the fear of speaking up for yourself because these things that have happened to you in the past.

So you stay small while this other person forces you and pushes you to do things that you don’t want to do.

That don’t serve you. That aren’t fulfilling your needs in life.

The Link Between Narcissists And Trauma

When you have been in relationships with narcissists, you have been through trauma.

That trauma has actually kept your voice small.

It’s kept you from speaking your truth.

Because you have the fear of either physically, emotionally, verbally being abused or being harmed in some way.

So you have to begin to unlock the key that’s holding you hostage by the narcissist.

That key is speaking your truth.

Because underneath it all, that narcissist is just a huge scaredy cat.

How To Speak Your Truth

By standing up and speaking your truth you will break free from the pattern of attracting narcissists.

But often that takes work.

It takes building up the courage and the energy to begin to speak our truth on a bigger level.

But, as we do, we exponentially can expandand manifest greater things in our
lives.

More of our needs ultimately begin to be fulfilled.

5 Blocks That Sabotage Your Manifesting Powers

If you are blocked from manifesting the things that you want and you find that you have trouble speaking your truth, then I want to invite you to check out a free video course that I have.

It’s called the 5 Blocks That Sabotage YourManifesting Powers.

In the video course, I go into these five blocks that will show you where you’re stopping yourself from breaking free and getting what you need in life.

So check that out.

There’s a link below this video.

You just go to the page enter your name and email and you’ll get instant access to that course.

But for this week I challenge you to find an area in your life where you’re afraid to speak up for yourself.

Start small.

It doesn’t have to be anything big and speak your truth and see how the dynamic begins to shift.

So do that this week and I will see you in the next video!

Take care!